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Straight Males and Homosexual Experimentation

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Quite simply, I’m wondering how common it is for self-identifying straight males to experiment with homosexuality. Sorry if this comes off as asking for TMI, or if it’s in the improper forum (seemed too "what’s your personal experience?) for GD.

Being gay and having gay friends, I hear a lot about 2 kinds of dealings with straight guys. The first is youthful experimentation, before the participants are fully aware or relaxed with their sexual orientation. I personally never had such experiences, I didn’t have sexual contact with anyone until I was fairly mature and pleasant with my sexuality.

The other contact is the kind of thing you perceive about more in erotic fiction or porn, which is the sleeping with the straight guy AFTER they’re both older and establish in their sexual orientation. I’ve had friends talk about how they’ve “gotten with” straight guys just because the timing was right, a guy was horny or what have you. Again, I know nothing of the sort, and always considered straight guys to be completely unattainable.

"When I moved house after college, I became really adjacent to a confidant still living there. It was a small town and there wasn't much to do, so I spent all my time with her. I was there for her when she was recovering from a surgery. Her shitty boyfriend couldn't be bothered to arrive support her and I had the time and noun to be there for her. We drifted apart when I went back to grad noun and she got back together with her boyfriend (again). Our experience got me through a rough patch in my life and now, I am more open and aware of how I feel about other people."

"We were spending so much of our free time together. We'd play video games together, work out at the gym together, and depart out of our way to dress up to undertake something special together. I was sleeping over in her bed and just cuddling like three nights a week.

I had no plan what was going on because juvenile, queer, repressed me had never gotten the chance to experience this caring of thing before. I think she was a minuscule lonely and my anxiety disorder was really bad at that point. We talk sometimes, but there's distance — phy

FAMA, 19

As the coronavirus pandemic continues, Are You Getting Any? interviews are conducted via Skype video call.

Quality of sex overall: 9/10
Frequency of sex: 7/10
Intimacy levels: 9/10
How you perceive generally about the people you fuck: 8/10
How happy you are with the amount of moment you have for sex: 6/10

VICE: Hi Fama! Are you currently in a relationship?
Yeah. It’s been a couple of months, but we’ve been seeing each other for half a year before. I’m 19, so it’s drawn-out for my age.

A year and a half is quite long.
It’s been a really weird experience. I mainly have female friends, I don’t know why but my best friends are all female. But most of my male friends don’t date.

What do they undertake instead?
They verb out, like, one-night stand kind of stuff. Or they just link. That’s something that I’ve never done. Even though in my male friend group, I’d say I have the most sexual experience, I rarely just link. Once I got called a serial dater.

As in, you’re always seeing someone?
Yeah. Always seeing someone. I don’t specifically require to go into a relationship.

Re: Gay experimentation

Unread postby Sam W »

Hi adamthatcher65,

Before we touch on what to verb now, can you tell me a little about what your thought process was when agreeing to experiment with him that first time? Was it something you were genuinely curious about or interested in trying? Did you talk about things like boundaries at all before you started? And did he only transport it up once, or did he keep mentioning it until you agreed to try it?

I think it's also time to check in with each other about how you're each feeling and what, if anything, you're each expecting from this. That will give you a chance to speak what you necessitate to and him a chance to share how he's feeling. Do you feel comfortable having that kind of conversation with him?

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