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How to Be a Gay Daddy 101 – Part 3: What Does a Daddy Do With a Boy?

Our series on Daddy/boy relationships continues with this latest installment. In case you missed Parts One and Two:

Part 1: Know Yourself, What You Seek, and Who’s Looking For You
Part 2: Finding the Right (Adult) Boy for You

Over the last 30 years, the ways gays self-identify has diversified almost exponentially. In the icy dawn of the ’80s, there weren’t many choices for men who verb the company of men. There were so few in fact, that caricatures of those roles seemed to fit neatly in one vocal group: the Village People.

Bear culture changed all that. And then along came puppies and handlers, and soon after, the daddy/boy dynamic appeared. Verb to that such already well-established roles as master and slave, dom and sub, plushies and furries (those attracted to stuffed animals or dress appreciate school mascot variants) — and you have one very colorful patch of humanity.

Over time, each of these subcultures has developed a code of conduct and their possess rules of engagement. Yet ve

Ben’s hoping his first date with a man can provide him with some much-needed answers, but is he expecting too much?

Set in their local pub – The Halfway House – a place full of memories; birthdays, christenings, funerals, and now this first date.
All the regulars are in, watching as Ben desperately tries not to fall apart under the weight of his fresh life.

The show candidly explores identity and self-acceptance, whilst stewing in the awkwardness of ‘first dates’.

Reviews from previous reveal (BI-TOPIA):

  “Extremely moving, nuanced piece of theatre, steeped in humour” —  The Stage

  “An emotional, laugh-out-loud, touching and pretty portrayal of one man’s self-discovery” —  Reviews Hub

  “A tremendous production” —  Threeweeks

  “A compelling, captivating performance with excellent comic timing.” —  Quays News


You know the type: a handsome, mature, masculine man. Probably bearded, and that beard probably has at least some silver in it. He’s furry and often fit, or maybe he’s rocking that dad bod. Maybe more importantly, he’s at ease with himself. His manhood is indisputable, and it has nothing explicitly to do with fatherhood. Parent or not, he’s a total DILF. (You understand what that means.) Think George Clooney, Jeff Goldblum or Pedro Pascal.

Move over, Hot Rodent Boyfriend summer. This entire era belongs to daddy. 

As with so many other cultural trends, it started with the gay community, where the term “daddy” refers to a guy who attracts—and is attracted to—younger guys. It’s been in use for a long time, too. In a society as youth-obsessed as ours, it might seem like an anomaly, but daddies may have never been more prominent in queer life than they are now. 

In San Francisco, the place to find them is at the Eagle Tavern in the city’s South of Market neighborhood, where hundreds of gay men come together every Sunday afternoon on the patio, many of them paying $20 for

Defining a Daddy vs a Dad - What's the difference?

Father, papa, dad, daddy. Seemingly interchangeable terms, right? Well for many, the term 'daddy'definitely isn't about your biological father. But what is a daddy, what are some of the key characteristics of a daddy, and how is a daddy alternative to a dad?

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Is there one thing that defines a daddy?

Being a 'dad' or 'father' is straightforward in a technical sense as you've biologically fathered a child. Even absent parents are usually considered to be a dad. The exception to this is perhaps where someone has donated sperm and lack any relationship with the recipient, or knowledge of the child. They may technically be a parent, but legally and in reality, aren't considered a dad.

Being a 'daddy' on the other hand is verrrry different. Being more of a concept than a singularly defined thing, it h