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It&#;s Time: by Manila Gay Guy

ED: This post was originally written in by Manila Gay Guy. It still rings true even today.


It starts like a painless prick in the mind — HIV? Me? Nah.

Then after a while, you remember those mad times in the past. Yeah, you think, crazy but not too crazy as to put me at risk. Besides, the probability of getting it is too low. Malinis naman sila, I’m sure.You continue to attempt convincing yourself.

Time pass and you’re mostly successful in keeping those HIV thoughts at bay. Yet there were times, admit it, that the prick in the mind becomes a bit more intense. Did I really act it bareback? Can’t remember na. May condom naman yata. Yata? Shit, can’t remember na talaga.

Now it’s selective memory lapse. You think you were safe naman, most of the noun, at the least. But you can’t seem to obtain the doubt off your mind. Suddenly, you don’t grasp, it is not clear if you really were safe.

Everytime you see those three letters HIV, there’s a slight skip in your heartbeat, a petite lump in your throat forming. I think I have it. Maybe I hav

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really enjoying my 39th birthday party last nighttime with GREAT friends, thanks boys!


Here is an fascinating conversation piece I managed to utilize in a recent date: in a bar or similar environment, when you spot a guy that tickles your fancy, do you make the first move (meaning, you approach the guy and introduce yourself) or do you wait to be approached (maybe signal a smile but stay put and wait)? My date and I had such an intriguing conversation around it that I thought maybe we can use it as another point of colorful discussion among us here in MGG. Do you make the first move? Or execute you wait to be approached? How has been your experience?

In Ramone Johnson’s blog, he says:

Making the first shift is a bold step; yet one that gets easier after each approach. A vast majority of guys appreciate to be the ones hit on first: It shows confidence on the part of the one making the first move and it eases the tensions of achievable rejection. The probability of rejection is far less when a guy is the one approached, as opposed to the other way around. And the probability of finding a man increases when you accept the initiative instead of sitting back and waiting for